| It is with honor that we have this
opportunity to address parents and families in this way. One of our most
wonderful tasks is that of assisting parents and children in their journey
together toward an understanding of each other.
As you all attempt to find harmonious solutions to
small and large areas of tension and misunderstanding with each other, we
wish to show you and to help you understand how we can assist you in this
process, and how available we are to do this with you.
As angels, we are with you at all times.
There is never a moment in which we are not aware of what you are doing,
thinking, or feeling. This does not mean that we are imposing ourselves
upon you. It simply means that we are so intrinsic to one another's
existence that we cannot be separated from one another.
So as we are inseparable and completely invaluable
to one another, we want you to know how valuable our relationship really
is.
We exist in a place where there is only love. A love
which transcends human dogma and concerns. A love which shows and teaches
you that no matter what may be occurring in the moment, the only solution,
the only recourse, is love. Observe for yourselves how every expression in
life is one of either the free giving of love or a call to be noticed, for
love has been denied. The only real language in your lives is love
- love to be exchanged, shared, and explored.
It may be easier now to see that we are here to
assist you in coming to this state of love on a regular basis. It is so
easy to miss the small expressions of love when you are busy, overworked,
on an imposed schedule, trying to find a balance between personal
responsibility and freedom of expression.
We are here with you. And we are available to answer
your questions about how to achieve the path of least resistance between
yourselves and your children, yourselves and your parents. Remember that
as a son or daughter - no matter your age - you may still be grappling
with how your parents denied or were generous with their love for you.
There is no need to feel that misunderstanding is a
"normal" event between parents and children. We would like to
help you change this. There is always a way in which each of you
can feel honored, loved, and respected.
Please understand that as human beings you are not
here to try to change any other individual to match your personal ideas,
or the precepts of society, as to how they should be. Your greatest task
is to love the differences in each other, finding the road to harmony,
acceptance, and peace, regardless of how difficult that may seem. The
attempted imposition of what seem to be arbitrary rules and expectations
tends often to meet with resistance from children. Let's work together to
find a language of loving respect between one another. This may be the
greatest of experiences possible between parents and children. As well,
let us always remember to celebrate the wonders of our love ... and to
share it freely.
"Neither a lofty degree of intelligence, nor
imagination, nor both together go to the making of genius. Love, love,
love, that is the soul of genius."
- Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart
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