|1. Wearing a baby is convenient.
When we carry a baby in a sling, we can walk around freely and not have to worry about
negotiating steps, crowds or narrow aisles with a stroller. Plastic "baby
buckets" and removable car seats are heavy and awkward for parents, babies often look
uncomfortable, and they are kept at knee level. A sling can block out excess stimuli when
breastfeeding a distractible baby, and it allows for discreet nursing in public places. A
sling can also double as a changing pad, blanket, or cushion when away from home. I've
found my sling especially handy when negotiating busy airports with a small child and
2. Wearing a baby promotes physical development.
When a baby rides in a sling attached to his mother, he is in tune with the rhythm of
her breathing, the sound of her heartbeat, and the movements his mother makes – walking,
bending, and reaching. This stimulation helps him to regulate his own physical responses,
and exercises his vestibular system, which controls balance. The sling is in essence a
"transitional womb" for the new baby, who has not yet learned to control his
bodily functions and movements. Research has shown that premature babies who are touched
and held gain weight faster and are healthier than babies who are not1.
Mechanical swings and other holding devices do not provide these same benefits.
3. Babies worn in slings are happier.
Studies have shown that the more babies are held, the less they cry and fuss2.
In indigenous cultures where baby-wearing is the norm, babies often cry for only a
few minutes a day – in contrast to Western babies, who often cry for hours each day.
Crying is exhausting for both the baby and his parents, and may cause long-term damage as
the baby's developing brain is continually flooded with stress hormones.3 Babies
who do not need to spend their energy on crying are calmly observing and actively learning
about their environment. Baby-wearing is especially useful for colicky babies, who are far
happier being worn, but placid, content babies and children will also benefit greatly from
the warmth and security of being held close.
4. Baby-wearing is healthy for you!
It can be challenging for new mothers to find time to exercise, but if you carry your
baby around with you most of the day or go for a brisk walk with your baby in her sling,
you will enjoy the dual benefits of walking and "weightlifting". A long walk in
the sling is also an excellent way to help a tired but over-stimulated child fall asleep.
5. Toddlers appreciate the security of the sling.
Slings are usually associated with infants, but they can be very useful for toddlers as
well; most slings accommodate children up to 35 or 40 pounds. The world can be a scary
place for toddlers, who feel more confident when they can retreat to the security of the
sling when they need to do so. Toddlers often become over-stimulated, and a ride in the
sling helps to soothe and comfort them before (or after!) a "melt-down" occurs.
It can be very helpful in places like the zoo, aquarium, or museum, where a small child in
a stroller would miss many of the exhibits.
6. Baby-wearing helps you and your baby to communicate with each other.
The more confidence we have in our parenting, the more we can relax and enjoy our
children. A large part of feeling confident as a parent is the ability to read our baby's
cues successfully. When we hold our baby close in a sling, we become finely attuned to his
gestures and facial expressions. Many baby-wearing parents report that they have never
learned to distinguish their baby's cries – because their babies are able to communicate
effectively without crying! Every time a baby is able to let us know that she is
hungry, bored or wet without having to cry, her trust in us is increased, her
learning is enhanced, and our own confidence is reinforced. This cycle of positive
interaction enhances the mutual attachment between parent and child, and makes life more
enjoyable for everyone.
7. Slings are a bonding tool for fathers, grandparents, and other caregivers.
Slings are a useful tool for every adult in a baby's life. It makes me smile when I see
a new father going for a walk with his baby in a sling. The baby is becoming used to his
voice, heartbeat, movements and facial expressions, and the two are forging a strong
attachment of their own. Fathers don't have the automatic head-start on bonding that comes
with gestation, but that doesn't mean they can't make up for this once their baby is born.
The same goes for babysitters, grandparents and all other caregivers. Cuddling up close in
the sling is a wonderful way to get to know the baby in your life, and for the baby to get
to know you!
8. Slings are a safe place for a child to be.
Instead of running loose in crowded or dangerous places, a child in a sling is held
safe and secure right next to your body. Slings also provide emotional safety when needed,
so that children can venture into the world and become independent at their own pace.
9. Slings are economical.
Slings cost far less than strollers, front-carriers or backpacks. Many mothers consider
the sling to be one of their most useful and economical possessions. Inexpensive used
slings can be found in consignment and thrift stores, and new ones can be bought for about
$25 -$50 (U.S.) - not bad for an item many parents use daily for two years or more! A
sling can also be sewn for the price of a length of cotton, some rings and batting; sling
patterns are available.
10. Baby-wearing is fun.
Who doesn't love to cuddle a precious little baby? And when your baby is older, having
her in the sling makes conversations easier and allows you to observe her reactions to the
wonders of the world around her. It's also fun for baby, because when she is up at eye
level, other adults notice and interact with her more. Your child will feel more a part of
your life when she is in her sling, and you will find yourself becoming more and more
enchanted with this special little person.
What to look for in a sling
1. Does it fit your height and build?
Most brands come in different sizes; choose one that is right for you (consider your
shoulder width, bust, and length of torso). A brand or size that is perfect for a friend
may not be the best one for you.
2. How easy is it to adjust the sling?
Most slings have shoulder rings that allow for tightening and loosening by pulling
excess fabric through. The sling will be pulled snugly for an infant, and loosened over
time as the baby develops. Test this in the store, because a sling that cannot be easily
adjusted will not be used as often as one that is better constructed.
3. Examine the padding.
Some people like slings with padding, while others do not. Try out various styles, and
choose the one that works best for you.
Babywearing: The Benefits and Beauty of This Ancient Tradition by Dr.
Attachment Parenting: Instinctive Care for Your Baby and Young Child by Katie Allison Granju
Our Babies, Ourselves: How Biology and Culture Shape the Way We Parent by Meredith Small
The Vital Touch: How Intimate Contact With Your Baby Leads to Happier,
Healthier Development by Sharon
Is All That Baby
Gear Really Necessary?
Wear Your Baby (Mamatoto
Project) - detailed information on a wide variety of carriers, numerous online videos
on babywearing and breastfeeding, and a page of common sense safety reminders.
Illustrated - PDF file
Bebé Koala - Spanish babywearing forum
Libre - Spanish/English babywearing website
Why to Babywear - physical and psychological benefits
How to Babywear - 6 babywearing positions described and shown in